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Trip Advice

Honest reads for your Tokyo trip

Short, practical notes on etiquette and travel — written from a life lived between Tokyo and the U.S.

Trains, subways, buses & taxis

Getting Around (Local): what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

The IC card, the quiet carriage, the queue painted on the platform floor: Tokyo’s trains run on small unspoken habits, and you can learn every one before you land.

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Shinkansen & long-distance travel

Getting Around (National): what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

The bullet train is the easiest, most civilized way to see Japan once you know how reserved seats, luggage, and onboard quiet actually work.

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Restaurants, izakayas & street food

Eating & Drinking: what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

From standing ramen counters to your first izakaya, eat your way across Tokyo with warm, unhurried confidence — and skip the tip.

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What to wear & how to shop

Clothing & Shopping: what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

Tokyo is one of the most stylish cities on earth, and it still has zero interest in judging your sneakers — here’s what actually matters and what truly doesn’t.

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What to bring (and leave home)

Packing for Your Trip: what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

Slip-on shoes, a hand towel, a little cash, and the handful of small things that quietly make Tokyo easier from the moment you land.

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Hot springs & public baths

Onsens & Sentos: what first-timers get wrong (and how to relax about it)

Rinse off first, leave the swimsuit in the locker, keep the little towel out of the water — the bathing rituals, explained without a hint of judgment.

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